How To Have a Great Healthy Relationship

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Longer and stronger relationship… it is a real dream.

Successful relationships take work. If you are in a relationship with a guy who means the world to you, you probably want to make sure that he stays in love with you forever. Our main advice is: be honest. Always. Give him space. The more independent you are, the most interesting you will be to him when you are together, as well.

Communication. Ask for what you need. Use a specific, concrete communication style, both in your everyday exchanges and in more serious conversations. This applies to everything from emotional to physical needs. Find the Right Time. If something is bothering you and you would like to have a conversation about it, it can be helpful to find the right time to talk. If something is going wrong and your partner is angry… use the “48 hours rule”. Just give him/her a time. We don’t live in a vacuum. We have thoughts and feelings that can be confusing. Anger is wasting of time…

Don’t forget the small things. Saying please and thank you shouldn’t be reserved for the company.

You can only change yourself, not your partner. If you love someone and think that after a while he or she will alter behaviors you find uncomfortable, think again. Look at yourself for the problem first. Next time you feel the need to blame someone for your feelings—something they did or should have done—ask yourself if there’s something else going on. Don’t assume you know what he/she’s thinking. Instead, just ask. Just as you wouldn’t want to have to read his/her mind, don’t wait for him to read yours (because he/she probably can’t).

Maintain physical intimacy. Physical touch—kissing, cuddling, holding hands, embracing, and having sex (if it’s sexual relationship)—is important to the intimacy of a relationship. Never mention your ex or escort girl, forget all that crazy expriences when you “were young and stupid”.

Be responsible for your own happiness. For example, if you’re not a loyal and trusting friend, you may assume your friends are all out to get you. In a relationship, it is crucial for both people to make an attempt to look good for each other. You can do this by staying physically fit, dressing nicely or engaging in proper grooming routines. Enjoy their company more than their approval. Exercise together – studies show that couples who exercise together are not only healthier, but more satisfied with their marriage… or simply go on long trip vacations together.

Do the nostalgic memory exercise. If you are religious people – pray together. If you’re comfortable talking about it, discuss what you pray about. There are so many mistakes you can do, but you are safe if you stay yourself.